Failure is always an option in BJJ. In fact, it may just be an option you actually need to use more often. To be honest it is arguably the hardest way of learning BJJ, given human nature and all. however, as it is usually the case, the hardest way also yields the best results. You can, by all means, learn Jiu-Jitsu by actually striving to never fail. however, if you master failure as a learning tool, you’ll not only understand what BJ is all about, but you’ll have way more fun in every roll. It is Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101.
How often do you go to class with a plan to fail in as many things as you can during rolling? I’d wager that the majority of people will say never, or very rarely. More experienced people, or those choosing one of the more unusual learning methodologies of BJJ, would probably say most of the time, though. Depending on what you’re working on, actually looking to fail in something is so much more important than looking to succeed with it. At least at first. Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101 means that the more times you fail in something, the tighter and better it will be when it finally succeeds.
Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101: Failure
Failing is something most people in the world avoid. Even within BJJ it is the hardest thing to master, if you ask me. Nobody likes to fail at anything, and yet, that’s the best possible way of actually learning how something works. In that sense, when it comes to BJJ, you learn quite soon that you’ll fail a lot. What folks usually do not comprehend straight away is that that will carry on fro the reminders of their Jiu-Jitsu journey.
So, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101, lesson two; Do not expect to fail only in a defensive manner. Yes getting tapped is an invertible part of BJJ. And yes, the more you tap, the more you learn. However, you shouldn’t’ just see tapping out or losing positions as a failure. You can actually fail in just about anything that you do, from grip fighting, through attacks all the way to defending submissions. And that is where the secret of Jiu-Jitsu lies.
One thing everyone likes to use probably as much a saying “Oss” is saying that they’ve left their ego at the door. Well, that’s not true. Ego is always present, even in BJJ black belts. it is all about how we deal with the ego that makes all the difference. And, mastering the art of failing, or better yet, actually striving to fail, is a great way of making sure you can really control how you react in ego-driven situations.
Learn How To Fail
I have to admit, learning how to fail was the hardest lesson for me in BJJ. Even harder than learning how to pass the guard, I kid you not. Actually it took me getting to the brown belt to finally start figuring out what this Jiu-jitsu thing is all about. And it is not that hard. The concept is simple – go against your natural programming and do not be afraid to fail. In fact, embrace it.
Let’s use a few practical examples here. First of all, the defensive aspect. When people get you in a submission, you tap. They “win” the round, your “lose” and you restart. The same happens in the tournament, just without the immediate restart. What did you learn? If you learned that you can’t get out of an armbar, for example, you need to go back. What you can learn is how, when, where and why your opponent actually succeeded with that submission. And, unless you happen to it, you would have no way of discovering all these things.
The same is true for any escape out there. You can’t be good at escaping the mount, for example, if you ever end up in bottom mount. So go there intentionally, and fail to escape. Every failure will teach you much more about escaping than a month’s worth of mount escape lessons.
Finally, the same holds true for attacks as well. there’s the hidden benefit of actually becoming better at attacks by getting caught, so you already have the upper hand. But it is when you try to attack, that you also need to embrace failure. every failed submission attempt, guard pass or anything offensive will teach you much more about the move than actually pulling it off at first. And, the more critical you are about your success, the more you’ll fail, which means them more BJJ you’ll learn. As I said, this should be Brazilian JIu-Jitsu 101. People would learn so much more so much faster.
Hidden Lessons
There is more, though. It is not just about getting out of armbars and passing all the crazy guards of today. Failing will teach you another extremely important lesson – not giving up. If you want to use failure as a tool to develop a mean Omoplata, for example, you’ll need to really focus on failing with it for quite some time. In most cases, you’ll need months on an end to really polish a move. That means you’ll become so comfortable in situations where failure seems inevitable, that you’ll “forget” how to give up. And believe me, learning no to give up this way will be extremely beneficial when you step on the mats to compete.
Moreover, learning to embrace failure, as corny as it may sound will help you in any walk of life. Do you know what is the most important lesson people learn from BJJ? It is that they’re actually unimportant. In other words, they learn that they can, will land should fail. And they learn that there’s a lesson there to be learned in order to become better.
Now your appraoch can also be different and that;’ goes beyond Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101. Whether you choose to be analytical and logical about things or emotions, it is down to you. However, looking at how to beat the armbar triangle trap you fall in nonstop, whether with a cool head or just raging not to be caught, means you’re learning from failure. It is up to you how comfortable (or not) the process is going to be.
In Summary
Just as the title says. If there’s ever a Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu 101 that we teach across the world, it should be about the concept of learning how to fail. Those who grasp it sooner will get to understand BJJ much faster and progress accordingly. Presumptuous as it may sound, I firmly believe in this and even have a brand new group of students starting their Jiu-Jitsu journey from this basic lesson.


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Let me paint you a picture. You’re in the gym, a blue belt with two stripes and about three years of overall training experience. You’re also a competitor and a tough one at that. When you’re rolling, you’re a real nightmare for all the white and blue belts, and even most purple belts at the academy. Then, a new guy walks in through the door. He doesn’t have a Gi, he’s as white as a white belt can be. You go out to play your usual game but you soon discover the’ nothing you can do and you end up crushed under immense pressure. What just happened?
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Given how new nootropics are, there are no real set standards as to what a certain supplement should fulfill in order to classify as a nootropic. Anything from the ability to enhance memory, to improving neural mechanisms can classify something as a nootropic. Protecting the brain, extending it’s longevity and maximizing its potential are the most common qualities people look for when turning to a nootropic supplement.
In terms of dose, you’ll have to figure that one out for yourself. Forget about the advertisements that more is better. If you want to maximize your brainpower, you’ll need to know exactly how much to take for yourself. That will require some tinkering when you first start.
You might’ve suspected from the title that one word was going to pop up sooner or later in this article: Yoga. Well, here we are. Ther’s no way to mention JIu-Jitsu flexibility training, particularly in a home setting without Yoga. Whenever you have no access to equipment, doing Yoga is going to provide you with a challenging workout that will undoubtedly improve your flexibility. Or, if you’re not into Yoga, or unable to do some of the more challenging poses (yet), you can always start with a few targeted BJJ-specific stretches.
For starters, let’s see how weights can help you develop more than just muscles. Ideally, you’d have aces stoa barbell, although a kettlebell will do the trick as well. Looking for the best overall mobility exercise fro BJJ? Do Jefferson curls. This gymnastic exercise is in essence, a deadlift taken well past the negative point. To do so, you’ll have to stand on a chair or something so that you can go past your toes holding a weight. Trust me and start of light here, with a kettlebell, dumbbell or an empty barbell at first. Other gymnastic options include weighted hanging off a pullup bar, shoulder dislocators (you can do them with a BJJ belt), and a myriad of weight one leg squat variations.
Having a competition team is a great thing. In fact, every great competitor has an even better team of coaches, other competitors and training partners behind them. However, you can go to a competition with just a team of people with the same goal as you, or you can go with a bunch that you consider to be close friends on top of being teammates. That is what a BJJ community is all about.
Now imagine that they’ve been out drinking partying and/or doing something together. Suddenly, people get to know each other. now, instead of a team, you get a circle of friends. The atmosphere changes immensely after just one BJJ social event. What you need to avoid, as a rule of thumb, though is taking people out in a way that’s usual. Going to a bar, for example, will just end up with people in tight little groups. Instead, if you can, do an event in the gym, but have people come in casual clothing, not Gis. How crazy you go is up to you. It can be anything from a meet and greet to a full-blown light show, sound system, and beer on tap party.